There is fear of lossing someone when we are emotionally dependent on that person. Therefore it has been said that dont be emotionally depend on anyone. Life is easy that way!

Bt wt to do if othr person don't understand dis fear or anxiety even wen expressed and jus avoids u evrytime ? It's vy painful.. How to overcome dis type of fear..

I believe this fear was instilled in me when i was 19 and my fiance was shot with his own company issued firearm. The older i get and the older my parents get it has steadily been getting worse for me. My parents ornsiblings, neices and nephew would get sick with flue or other simptoms that immediataly fills my head with how severe the condition is. i will start getting filled with feelings of overwhelming anxiety and it will spiral into a feeling of extreme sadness. I will cry for hours. ... it such a debilitating feeling of hopelessness and overwhelming fear. I have also been diagnosed with temporal lobe epilepsy which makes it hard to control my fear even more. I don't talk to them about my fear cause they know i suffer from these feelings. And mostly i dont talk about it because i kniw they dont understand how deeply seeded thus fear is for me. I'm not afraid of dying.... I'm afraid of being alone in this world. Some days its easier to handle and try and control the feelings by trying to think positive thoughts... but other days... the thought any of my family is so devistating to me that i cant seem to handle the fear. Its an overwhelming feelimg of sadness and dispair . It starts with conversations of the symptoms they have worrying them. ... and it just snowballs to a point where it gets so overwhelmimg that i end up crying and i know its life.. and i have no ontrol over it... but it is a feeling of fear and complete and utter helplessness so much so that i wish and pray that i will go before any of them. I am on medicatiom to calm me down when the feelings wash over me. I have also been put back on antideprecionfor the last few months. But even on medication. .. i feel like my heart is being wripped out. Futher to this i have Could anyone provide me with information on how i can deal with the fear ....

I have grown sons. I totally shut down if something happens. One is an addict. The other has urinary health issues. Doing a scope in two weeks. I already fear the worst. I hate feeling like this. It's debilitating.

My mom has MS and is young and is now in Assisted Living. Seeing her in the hospital hurts but I know she is getting better care now. I still get upset of course. I fear more now losing my husband cause he is overweight and has a heart condition. One side of my family constantly judges me and says things like "don't you want him to live"as if it's all my fault I can't make him lose weight. We are eating better but it's up to him to exercise with me. I fear losing him both to death and to the weight. It hurts and I fear that I'm a failure at getting him healthier...

Due to that typ of fearness we can't trust someone why?

I am 12 years old and I am worried that my younger brother will randomly pass away for unknown reasons I'm really afraid help!

my problem is my fear is losing my wife it hits me so hard (not all the time but alot of it more when i am alone) she is my everything and losing her scares me more then any thing in the world, i got no real people to talk about this to me and her suffer mental disorders bi polar being the main one but their others counseling out for me no money or good insurance (the one i got no one takes in the counseling area) this problem started getting worse in janurary when she attempted suicide due to her mental issue and depression she got help and seems better but in all honesty she wont let me worry so i never know for sure the odds are high she will one day (who knows when) will attempted it again and could be successful and this fear eats at me but their ant nothing i can do i cant watch her 24/7 no one can and now she fine but who knows if it will stay this way, as for if it happens will i make it through the answer no cause of several reason 1 we both believe suicide a 1 way ticket to hell 2 i got nothing else worth living for with out her so when/if she does kill her self i will follow short behind cause their is no heaven or life her on earth without her

I am finding myself in total fear that my girl is leaving but a lil part of me tells me that I might see her again. This article is helpful but the pain gets deeper with time and my affection grows for her even more. She knows I love her. Well in summary I've tried everything to stop her from leaving but she wants what's best for her. I still don't know what I'm gonna do when she actually leaves to another state. Anyway just passing by to express myself if anyone cares to read this. Sometimes I think life isn't fair but I know I'll come around. Hopefully the next time I can actually hold on to a girl that really wants to follow my life dreams.

The more we worry the more it fills our little mind with even more worst thoughts. Everyone will have their own worries, and off course problems can only arise to human beings and not trees. All we can do is to stop worrying and start living in the present. Each time you worry about something can tell to yourself you'll have a best day time of your life ahead, this way it can make you stronger and have positive influence.